Oh boy, here we go again. It seems like St. Nicholas Day is all about celebration, magic, and all that. But for us parents, it’s, quite frankly, a hellish quest: to find something that will provoke genuine, not just polite, excitement. And without it costing a trip to the Maldives.
If you’re here, your brain is probably already boiling, and you, like me, are looking for a lifeline. You know, not just a list of “buy this and that,” but something that will actually work. I’ve been through this dozens of times. Now, let’s break it all down. There’ll be some classics, lots of non-obvious stuff, and most importantly—I’ll tell you exactly how not to miss with your choice. Sit back, there’s no filler here.
Classics That Work 100% (But There Are Caveats!)
Let’s start with what’s been, well, tested over the years. It’s like the basic package. Sometimes a bird in the hand is better than a crane that ends up lying under the sofa, right? I decided to add my own, purely parental, comments because there are no perfect gifts in real life.
Here are 20 ideas — the proven essentials:
- Books. But, please, choose the ones that light up or move: Because a regular one might just stay on the shelf.
- Pros: Never hurts. Reading is the foundation, what more can I say?
- Cons: If the child is a visual learner, it won’t land without cool illustrations.
- LEGO Construction Sets (and their counterparts): Did I mention this is a drug? You need to buy what matches their interests, not what’s on sale.
- Pros: Helps “switch off” the child for hours, develops skills, gets the brain working.
- Cons: Oh god, the price! And those tiny bricks… I find them even in my shoes.
- Quality Plush Toy: Not just any. Either a character from a cartoon or just an incredibly soft bear to the touch.
- Pros: Sleep and hugs. Emotional support, so to speak.
- Cons: It’s a dust collector. I’m serious. Sometimes it’s better to just buy it, and then throw it away… just kidding.
- Board Games for the Whole Family: Something that will force them to tear themselves away from the screens. Now that’s a win.
- Pros: Quality time together, that’s the most important thing! Teaches them to tolerate losing.
- Cons: This requires your time, and there’s never enough of it.
- An Advanced Craft Kit: Not just simple playdough, but, say, something for scrapbooking or a large easel.
- Pros: Self-realization, emotional release.
- Cons: You will have to clean up. You must be prepared.
- A Nice Kids’ Backpack: Well, it’s practical. But choose it together so it’s not “that’s not cool.”
- Pros: Useful, won’t lie around unused.
- Cons: You have to guess a teenager’s taste. That’s almost impossible.
- Sports Equipment (Good Quality!): Skateboard, dumbbells, roller blades. Let them move!
- Pros: A healthy child is a happy family. Energy needs to go somewhere.
- Cons: It can quickly become boring.
- Kids’ Smartwatch: This is for your peace of mind, really. So you know where they are.
- Pros: Safety, you’re in touch.
- Cons: Another screen in their life.
- Warm, Funny Pajamas (Kigurumi): Coziness, festive mood.
- Pros: Warm and fun.
- Cons: It’s, darn it, clothes. The child might not see it as a gift.
- Collectible Cars/Figures: If the child is a fan. That’s important, that they are a fan!
- Pros: Development of a hobby, the ability to catalog.
- Cons: Takes up space and gets expensive when there are many.
- Young Magician’s Set: Now that’s interactive!
- Pros: Confidence, communication, motor skills.
- Cons: You have to buy it, and then endure them showing the same trick 10 times.
- Diary with a Lock: This is for teenagers, their privacy.
- Pros: Reflection, feeling of adulthood.
- Cons: Paper? In the 21st century? Might not be a hit.
- A Piggy Bank that “Eats” Money: Or some mega-unusual one.
- Pros: Financial education. You have to start somewhere.
- Cons: If it’s not filled, it’s sad.
- Kids’ Camera: Not an expensive one. So you don’t feel bad about it.
- Pros: Develops perspective, composition.
- Cons: The photos might be… weird.
- A Cool Thermos/Bottle: Stylish, so they’re not embarrassed to take it to school.
- Pros: Useful, ecological, the drink will be warm.
- Cons: You also have to guess the color, you know.
- Musical Instrument (Ukulele, Kalimba): Something not too loud.
- Pros: Hearing, aesthetics.
- Cons: Prepare for the sounds… it will be awful at first.
- Table Lamp Nightlight: To make evenings cozy.
- Pros: Coziness, helps before sleep.
- Cons: Another thing that collects dust.
- Globe (Interactive): If the child is interested in the world.
- Pros: Broadens horizons. It’s, like, smart.
- Cons: Takes up desk space.
- Comics or Manga: For those who don’t like “thick” books.
- Pros: Encourages reading through visualization.
- Cons: Parents often consider it “not serious.”
- And, of course, sweets: Where would we be without them? It’s St. Nicholas Day, for crying out loud!
- Pros: Joy, tradition.
- Cons: The dentist later… But it’s only once a year!
Here Are 30 More Gift Ideas for St. Nicholas Day

In short, if you need to round out the list or are looking for something small, here you go:
- A cool sketchbook and marker set
- Anti-stress toy (Pop-It, Squishy)
- Warm socks with funny patterns
- Bookstore gift certificate (let them choose!)
- Gamer mousepad
- Crystal growing kit
- Laptop sticker pack
- Jar of slime (but only good quality)
- Touchscreen gloves for a phone
- Mini indoor drone
- Lunch box with a warmer (practical, but stylish)
- Origami or Quilling set
- Unusual flash drive keychain
- Macarons (lots of them!)
- Ticket to the skating rink or pool
- Chalkboard for the fridge
- School pencil case, but a “cool” one
- Microscope or telescope (for the curious)
- Bath bomb set
- Small eco-friendly notebook
- Reflectors (useful and safe!)
- Bouncy ball (simple, but always works)
- New computer mouse or keyboard
- Subscription to an art course
- UNO or D&D cards (for a group)
- Paints for drawing on clothes
- Dream journal
- Christmas sweater (yes, it’s clothes, but festive!)
- Power bank (for older kids)
- Magazine based on interests (football, fashion, etc.)
Original and Creative Ideas: What If We Think Differently?
We’re all tired of the “typical.” I get it. Sometimes you want to give not just a thing, but some insight, you know? Something that makes them go: “Wow, I didn’t even think that could be a gift!”
- A Course or Masterclass Led by a Real “Idol”: Something the child is obsessed with. Not just programming, but a video editing course for TikTok from a famous blogger. That’s knowledge and social capital, in short.
- “Quest-Journey” Under the Pillow: Not one gift, but a series of riddle-notes. And each one leads to the next. It’s an entire story! In the morning, the child gets not just a toy, but a real adventure. This creates memories, not just fills space.
- Personalized Art: This could be a comic or a book where the child is the main character. Or their portrait in the style of their favorite game. It’s a direct message: “You are unique.” This really boosts self-esteem, believe me.
- Family Safe-Box: Buy a beautiful wooden box. Put the first gift inside. And then let every family member add something, writing a note “to be opened in three years.” That’s a time capsule! That’s about values!
Experience Gifts: Memory is Always More Valuable Than Material

Over the years, we forget what we were given for our birthday. But we remember how we felt in that moment. Do you understand? This, in my opinion, is the most important thing. I always say that emotional memory is the currency of childhood. Recently, by the way, I remembered the words of Piaget, the wise old man used to say: “Play is the main work for a child, it is a means of exploring the world”. Well, experiences are also a game, just a big one.
Here’s what is really worth buying, so there’s something to remember later:
| What do we give? | Who is it for? | Why does it work? |
|---|---|---|
| Tickets to a Shadow Theatre / Puppet Theatre | For the little ones (3-6 years) | Magic on stage, what could be better? It’s real wonder. |
| Certificate to a Trampoline Park / Escape Room | For those who run and jump (7-12 years) | Burn off excess energy, learn to work in a team. That’s socialization! |
| A Small Weekend Trip | For the whole family | A shared story, a change of routine. This is priceless. |
| Masterclass: Cooking or Pottery | For creative hands and minds (8+) | Creating something with your own hands, feeling the material. That’s meditation! |
| Tickets to a Match / Concert / VR-Club | For teenagers (13+) | Being “in the know,” feeling grown up. You have to give them that freedom. |
Tips for Choosing: How to Avoid Failure?
Here’s my main advice: don’t choose a gift for YOURSELF. Choose for the child. It’s, well, simple, but we constantly fail at this, don’t we?
Listen to what I have to tell you about age and interests:
- Toddlers: You shouldn’t skimp on quality and safety here, damn it. They put everything in their mouths. Sorters, large blocks, bright but sturdy books.
- School-Aged Kids: Hobby, hobby, hobby. What are they living for? Dinosaurs? Buy them a cool excavation kit! Space? A telescope! Don’t try to impose your own.
- Teenagers: Here, you know, there’s only one rule—respect. They value personal space, freedom of choice. Better a stylish gadget or a vision board. Or honestly give cash, don’t be shy, they are smart.
About Tradition and Mercy
And you know why? Because St. Nicholas is not Santa Claus, this is our Ukrainian tradition, rooted in mercy. I once read about it on one resource (it’s not just about gifts!): this day has long been about helping the needy and orphans. Maybe it’s worth setting aside, well, let’s say, 5-10% for charity along with the gift? That would be a real lesson that will last a lifetime.
Frequently Asked Questions (Or rather, our Parental Doubts)
What definitely shouldn’t be put under the pillow?
Personally, it drives me crazy when people give something that is, essentially, an extension of parental control. For example, some “boring” school supplies the child didn’t ask for. Or, you know, “very useful” books on etiquette rules. St. Nicholas is not a tutor! It’s about wonder, not obligation.
I forgot/didn’t have time. What to give if time is short?
Don’t panic. An experience gift certificate (ticket to a skating rink, VR club, escape room). It’s quick and cool. Or simply a beautiful, large, bright bag of favorite sweets and include a letter saying the main gift is delayed because St. Nicholas was a little late. Honesty works too.
How many gifts is normal?
One. Maximum—two big ones. And a bag of small items and sweets. When there are too many, the child simply doesn’t appreciate them. You know, the brain doesn’t have time to “digest” all the joy. Better one, well-aimed item than a mountain of clutter. Quality, not quantity.
Phew, that’s all. I hope I’ve made this task at least a little easier for you. Remember, your attention and time are already the best gift. And everything else is just wrapping. Go, hug your child, and start packing.
If this honest take on gifts helped you, and you’ve already run off with ideas, please share this article. Let other parents not suffer either! Thank you!
Author: S. Quill
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